Molly.19. Ace feminist with poor social skills. Generally grumpy. Weaknesses are blue eyes, pie, and Robert Plant's voice. Blogs SPN at deancasplatonicmyass.
Okay, this is actually what you do if you’re being sexually harassed in any kind of public space. Draw attention to it, preferably pull away and let EVERYONE know that someone is touching you. This will not only get him to get off you but he’ll definitely think about this situation next time he wants to do something like this.
Spreading the word.
My mom and I were talking about this today after hearing about a woman who was molested on a plane who said nothing until she was picked up at the airport by her parents. My mom looked at me and asked what I would do in that situation and I looked her dead in the eye and I told her “it would take me .02 seconds to realize what was going on and yell angrily, and then I would be straight on to bitch slapping him so hard he wouldn’t be able to see the punch I’d throw with the opposite hand”.
She nodded and accepted my salty language like a seasoned sailor.
I’ve had experience with this before, in Prague a group of five girls and I were followed by three men at night. After a while they started yelling at us, the most common being “how much?” Meaning how much we “cost” as prostitutes. Seeing as they weren’t going to stop, I turned on my heel, faced them (which surprised them), spat at their feet and responded with “You couldn’t afford me.” This prompted the other girls to start yelling back at them as well, starting with our spitfire Czech friend to start slinging curses in Czech as she and the rest of the girls came up beside me. Needless to say the men backed off and pretty much fled. They weren’t expecting a fight. It empowered me and encouraged the rest of the girls to yell back too.
I’ve heard that a lot of people don’t know what to do in this situation because they’ve been taught all their lives to be polite and non-aggressive. Keep your heads down or whatever.
Keep in mind that studies have shown that rapists look for victims who won’t fight back.
Remember that nobody has the right to touch you without your consent or harass you, and you have all the right to make the biggest fuss about it that you can possibly make.
Get angry. Be in command.
If someone is doing something that makes you uncomfortable like this, you do not need to be nice. Swear, kick, scream, make the asshole cry. You don’t have to nice, be as rude as you want
She’s hella racist and she knows how to make homemade explosives I don’t think she needs that much protection
No one is saying that she is not racist. No one supports her racism. The reason why people feel a need to protect her is that she has a mental illness and she is not aware of the dangers of whatever she had done. She didn’t think it was wrong of her to put explosives under a car, she didn’t think it was wrong of her to stalk a guy to death. She needs to get treatment, she should be getting professional help in prison but she is not, probably because of the fucked up administration (of prison or whatever). That’s why she needs protection.
There’s no cure for phobias, is there? So I’m going to be stuck like this for the rest of my life, right? Taking pills and choking in my sleep and feeling like falling from someplace really high.
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